Deep Throat Like The Pros March 20, 2014 – Posted in: Adult Toys, Erotic, Intimate – Tags: , ,

Deep Throat Tricks

Ready to up your game when it comes to oral sex on a man? Maybe you’re happy with your abilities and just want to push yourself to go deeper. Or maybe you’re new to giving oral sex and you want to get started on the right foot. There are tips and tricks to giving deep throat blow jobs that will have you getting your man begging for more!

Let’s talk about what a gag reflex actually is before getting started on the deep throat advice. It’s basically your body’s way of making sure that food and drink are the only things going down your throat. Your gag reflex is triggered by something touching the roof of your mouth, back of the tongue, the back of your throat and around your tonsils. Some individuals are more sensitive than others, to the point where brushing their teeth is hard. So – how to do get around this?

First, you want to relax. A lot of the hesitation surrounding deep throat blowjobs is all in the mind. You worry that you’re going to gag – or worse, throw up. You worry about not being able to breathe. You fear that you’re not doing it right. Pushing all those questioning thoughts aside and just giving into the moment is one of the key factors to giving successful deep throat. Communicate ahead of time if you want him to cum in your mouth, spit or swallow, so that worry is not playing in the back of your head.

Next when you’re opening your mouth, don’t overdo it. My overextending your jaw, you’re actually shortening the space in the back of your throat, making the possibility of gagging higher. Open it enough to take in his penis. Concentrate on relaxing your jaw while it is open – don’t keep it stiff. Use your tongue, but don’t overdo it. Sticking out your tongue too far is another way to upset a sensitive gag reflex.

If you have a truly overactive gag reflex, there are products you can use to help numb the back of your throat. Deep throat sprays, mints and even melt-in-your-mouth breath strips can reduce the sensitivity of the back of your throat – the area most responsible for triggering your gag reflex. This will allow you to take the penis into your mouth more so than you may have previously.

Still struggling? Use the trick that porn stars do! Rather than actually putting the entire penis into your mouth and throat, wrap your hand around the base of the penis, with the edge of your hand right up against the guy’s pelvis. Your hand serves two purposes. First, it’s a stop-gap to ensure that there isn’t too much penis going into your mouth and causing you to wretch. Secondly, by moving your hand up and down in time with your head (kind of like a hand job) you’re tricking his mind into thinking that the stimulation from your mouth and the stimulation from your hand is all one action. So you don’t actually have to do a true deep throat blowjob to make it actually feel like one!